Find a reason greater than reality: the power of the spirit
If you ask most people
if they would like to be rich or financially
free, they would say
yes. But then reality sets in. The road seems too
long with too many hills
to climb. It’s easier to just work for money
and hand the excess over
to your broker.
I once met a young woman
who had dreams of swimming for
the U.S. Olympic team.
The reality was that she had to get up every
morning at four o’clock
to swim for three hours before going to
school. She did not
party with her friends on Saturday night. She had
to study and keep her
grades up, just like everyone else.
When I asked her, what
fueled her super-human ambition and
sacrifice, she simply
said,
“I do it for myself and the people I love. It’s
love that gets me over the hurdles and sacrifices.”
A reason or purpose is
a combination of “wants” and “don’t
wants.” When people ask
me what my reason for wanting to be rich
is, I tell them that it
is a combination of deep emotional “wants” and
“don’t wants.”
I will list a few:
first, the “don’t wants,” for they create the “wants.”
I don’t want to work all
my life. I don’t want what my parents aspired for,
which was job security
and a house in the suburbs. I don’t like being an employee. I hated that my dad
always missed my football games because he was so busy working on his career. I
hated it when my dad worked hard all his life and the government took most of
what he worked for at his death.
He could not even pass on what he worked so
hard for
when he died. The rich
don’t do that. They work hard and pass it on
to their children.
Now the “wants.” I want
to be free to travel the world and live
in the lifestyle I love.
I want to be young when I do this. I want
to simply be free. I
want control over my time and my life. I want
money to work for me.
Those are my deep-seated
emotional reasons. What are yours?
If they are not strong
enough, then the reality of the road ahead may
be greater than your
reasons. I have lost money and been set back many times, but it was the deep
emotional reasons that kept me standing up and going forward.
I wanted to be free by age 40,
but it took me until I was 47, with many learning experiences along the way. As I said, I wish I could say it was easy. It wasn’t. But it wasn’t
that hard either. I’ve
learned that, without a strong reason or purpose, anything in life is hard.
IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A STRONG
REASON, THERE IS NO SENSE
READING FURTHER. IT WILL SOUND LIKE TOO MUCH WORK.
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