Make daily choices the power of choice
The choice is the main reason people want to live in a free country.
We want the power to choose.
Financially, with every dollar we get in our hands, we hold the
power to choose our future: to be rich, poor, or middle class. Our
spending habits reflect who we are. Poor people simply have poor
spending habits. The benefit I had as a boy was that I loved
playing
Monopoly constantly. Nobody told me Monopoly was only for kids,
So, I just kept playing the game as an adult. I also had a rich
dad who
pointed out to be the difference between an asset and a liability.
So
a long time ago, as a little boy, I chose to be rich, and I knew
that
all I had to do was learn to acquire assets, real assets. My best
friend,
Mike, had an asset column handed to him, but he still had to
choose
to learn to keep it. Many rich families lose their assets in the
next
generation simply because there was no one trained to be a good
steward over their assets.
Most people choose not to be rich.
For 90 percent of the population,
being rich is too much of a hassle. So, they invent sayings that
go:
“I’m not interested in money.” “I’ll never be rich.” “I don’t have
to worry. I’m still young.” “When I make some money, then I’ll think about my future.”
“My husband/wife handles the finances.”
The problem with those statements is that they rob the person who
chooses to think such
thoughts of two things:
One is time, which is your most precious asset.
The second is learning. Having no money should not be an excuse to
not learn. But that is a choice we all make daily: the choice of
what
we do with our time, our money, and what we put in our heads. That
is the power of choice. All of us have a choice. I just choose to be rich, and I
make that choice every day.
Invest first in education. In reality, the only real asset you
have in your mind, the most powerful tool we have dominion over. Each of us has
the choice of what we put in our brain once we’re old enough. You can watch TV,
read golf magazines, or go to a ceramics class or a class on financial planning.
You choose. Most people simply buy investments rather than
first investing in learning about investing.
A friend of mine recently had her apartment burglarized. The
thieves took her electronics and left all the books. And we all
have that
same choice. 90 percent of the population buys TV sets, and only
about 10 percent buy business books.
So, what do I do? I go to seminars. I like it when they are at
least two
days long because I like to immerse myself in a subject.
In 1973, I was watching this guy on TV who was advertising a
three-day seminar on
how to buy real estate for nothing down. I spent $385 and that
course has made me at least $2 million, if not more. But more importantly, it bought
me life. I don’t have to work for the rest of my life because of that one
course. I go to at least two such courses every year. I love CDs and audiobooks. The reason: I can easily review what I just heard. I was listening to an
investor say something I completely disagreed with. Instead of becoming
arrogant and critical, I simply listened to that five-minute stretch at least
20 times, maybe more.
But suddenly, by keeping my mind open, I understood why he said
what he said. It was like magic. I felt like I had a window into the mind of
one of the greatest investors of our time. I gained tremendous insight into the
vast resources of his education and experience.
The net result: I still have the old way I used to think,
and I now
have a new way of looking at the same problem or situation. I have
two ways to analyze a problem or trend, and that is priceless. Today, I often say,
“How would Donald Trump do this, or Warren Buffett or George Soros?”
The only way I can access their vast mental power is to be humble
enough to read or listen to what they have to say. Arrogant or
critical people are often people with low self-esteem who are afraid of taking risks.
That’s because, if you learn something new, you are then required
to make mistakes in order to fully understand what you have
learned.
If you have read this far, arrogance is not one of your problems.
Arrogant people rarely read or listen to experts. Why should they?
They are the center of the universe.
There are so many “intelligent” people who argue or defend when
a new idea clashes with the way they think. In this case, their
so-called intelligence combined with arrogance equals ignorance. Each of us knows
people who are highly educated or believe they are smart,
but their balance sheet paints a different picture. A truly
intelligent person welcomes new ideas, for new ideas can add to the synergy of
other accumulated ideas. Listening is more important than talking. If
that were not true, God would not have given us two ears and only
one mouth.
Too many people think with
their mouth instead of listening
in order to absorb new ideas and possibilities. They argue instead
of
asking questions.
I take a long view of my wealth. I do not subscribe to the
get-rich-quick mentality most lottery players or casino gamblers
have.
I may go in and out of stocks, but I am long on education. If you
want to fly an airplane, I advise taking lessons first. I am
always
shocked at people who buy stocks or real estate, but never invest
in
their greatest asset, their mind. Just because you bought a house
or
two does not make you an expert at real estate.
No comments:
Post a Comment